[form] Name[text,r_name,30] Email [text,r_email,30] =============================================== Reframe Strategy Suggestions SUPPLIER PAST or FUTURE STRATEGIES 7. FEEDBACK: As the upset Supplier, change roles and be the Consumer. What can you ask, or not ask, from the other person to resolve your upset? [textarea,as consumer I could ask for,3,70] Describe who is supposed to give or not give feedback? What feedback?. [textarea,the feedback,3,70] Here are some suggestions to use. Please work through each one, and discuss what parts of them will work and what will not with an explanation as to why. THEN at the end write up your personal plan to help make your quadrant a parallel one which shows your expectation is going to be met. Suggestions: * Find out how you're doing by asking the other person. If you can't get the kind of feedback you need, you might want to re- examine your motives, your expectations, and the kind of relationship you have with the other person. [textarea,suggestion01,3,70] * Don't give answers when you are asked for agreement or reasons for your actions. Silence is a wonderful answer. You may also want to ask why he or she needs to know the answer. [textarea,suggestion02,3,70] * Stop giving feedback if it isn't wanted or appreciated by the other person. Find someone who will accept and appreciate what you have to give. [textarea,suggestion03,3,70] * Perhaps the other person has a problem in accepting criticism. If it makes you feel important when someone listens to your opinion, recognise that you are important no matter what you say or don't say. [textarea,suggestion04,3,70] Having discussed each strategy, In general what will you now plan to do? [textarea,My plan is,3,70] ===================================================== IF you are STUCK try the Catch 22 suggestions by clicking here ================================================== Please share with me anything else you feel I need to know to understand you and your experience [textarea,comments,3,70,Write in here...] [checkbox,send copy] SEND ME A COPY PLEASE [submit,SEND this Entry][reset,Start Over again] [/form]