[form] Name[text,r_name,30] Email [text,r_email,30] =============================================== Reframe Strategy Suggestions SUPPLIER PAST or FUTURE STRATEGIES 6. SETTING OF PRIORITIES: As the upset Supplier, change roles and be the Consumer. What can you ask, or not ask, from the other person to resolve your upset? [textarea,as consumer I could ask for,3,70] Describe who is supposed to initiate and when (or not). [textarea,the priority or initiative,3,70] Here are some suggestions to use. Please work through each one, and discuss what parts of them will work and what will not with an explanation as to why. THEN at the end write up your personal plan to help make your quadrant a parallel one which shows your expectation is going to be met. Suggestions: * Let the other person make the first move or take the first step. [textarea,suggestion01,3,70] * Communicate your timetable. Offer the other person alternatives if you can. Learn to say "no", with kindness and firmness. [textarea,suggestion02,3,70] * If the other person repeatedly rebuffs your suggestions, or changes the timetable, stop initiating and evaluate what your relationship with this person is all about. [textarea,suggestion03,3,70] Having discussed each strategy, In general what will you now plan to do? [textarea,My plan is,3,70] ===================================================== IF you are STUCK try the Catch 22 suggestions by clicking here ================================================== Please share with me anything else you feel I need to know to understand you and your experience [textarea,comments,3,70,Write in here...] [checkbox,send copy] SEND ME A COPY PLEASE [submit,SEND this Entry][reset,Start Over again] [/form]