[form] Name[text,r_name,30] Email [text,r_email,30] =============================================== Reframe Strategy Suggestions SUPPLIER PAST or FUTURE STRATEGIES 2. CHANGES TO AGREEMENTS: As the upset Supplier, change roles and be the Consumer. What can you ask, or not ask, from the other person to resolve your upset? [textarea,as consumer I could ask for,3,70] Describe what the agreement, arrangement or promise is. [textarea,the agreement,3,70] Here are some suggestions to use. Please work through each one, and discuss what parts of them will work and what will not with an explanation as to why. THEN at the end write up your personal plan to help make your quadrant a parallel one which shows your expectation is going to be met. Suggestions: * If the other person won't accept changes to agreements, make as few as possible, and only those you know you can keep. All interactions and relationships are controlled by some type of agreement. Recognise that all agreements can change. Don't take every request for a change as a command. [textarea,suggestion01,3,70] * Don't let the other person make changes without getting something in return, and ask by when. [textarea,suggestion02,3,70] * If you have to make changes, do let the other person know about it and offer options to avoid an upset or a break in the relationship. [textarea,suggestion03,3,70] Having discussed each strategy, In general what will you now plan to do? [textarea,My plan is,3,70] ===================================================== IF you are STUCK try the Catch 22 suggestions by clicking here ================================================== Please share with me anything else you feel I need to know to understand you and your experience [textarea,comments,3,70,Write in here...] [checkbox,send copy] SEND ME A COPY PLEASE [submit,SEND this Entry][reset,Start Over again] [/form]