[form] Name[text,r_name,30] Email [text,r_email,30] =============================================== Reframe Strategy Suggestions SUPPLIER PAST or FUTURE STRATEGIES 1. RESPONSE: As the upset Supplier, change roles and be the Consumer. What can you ask, or not ask, from the other person to resolve your upset? [textarea,as consumer I could ask for,3,70] Describe what response they or you are supposed to make. [textarea,the response responsibility,3,70] Here are some suggestions to use. Please work through each one, and discuss what parts of them will work and what will not with an explanation as to why. THEN at the end write up your personal plan to help make your quadrant a parallel one which shows your expectation is going to be met. Suggestions: * Stop supplying the other person with advice or input, and another opportunity to reject what you have to offer. If the other person isn't asking, why do you think it's necessary to respond? [textarea,suggestion01,3,70] * Give the other person the opportunity to be responsible for himself or herself. Start asking instead of telling. You'll be surprised at the responses you'll receive and how fast your relationship will improve. [textarea,suggestion02,3,70] * If you must play the role of Supplier, find someone who will accept what you have to offer. [textarea,suggestion03,3,70] Having discussed each strategy, In general what will you now plan to do? [textarea,My plan is,3,70] ===================================================== IF you are STUCK try the Catch 22 suggestions by clicking here ================================================== Please share with me anything else you feel I need to know to understand you and your experience [textarea,comments,3,70,Write in here...] [checkbox,send copy] SEND ME A COPY PLEASE [submit,SEND this Entry][reset,Start Over again] [/form]