[form] Name[text,r_name,30] Email [text,r_email,30] HURT Alternatives From Hurt to DISAPPOINTMENT WHEN [checkbox,Another treats me badly] Another treats me badly [checkbox,I am undeserving of that bad treatment] I am undeserving of that bad treatment [text,when155,80] [text,when156,80] [text,when157,80] I RESPOND BY [checkbox,I communicate my feelings to the other person directly] I communicate my feelings to the other person directly [checkbox,I seek to influence the other person to act in a fairer manner] I seek to influence the other person to act in a fairer manner [text,respond162,80] [text,respond163,80] [text,respond164,80] BECAUSE [checkbox,I am realistic about the degree of unfairness of the other person's behaviour] I am realistic about the degree of unfairness of the other person's behaviour [checkbox,I perceive the other party as acting badly rather than as uncaring or indifferent] I perceive the other party as acting badly rather than as uncaring or indifferent [checkbox,I do not see myself as alone - uncared for - misunderstood] I do not see myself as alone - uncared for - misunderstood [checkbox,I am less likely to think of past hurts than when hurt] I am less likely to think of past hurts than when hurt [checkbox,I don't think that the other person has to make the first move] I don't think that the other person has to make the first move [text,because173,80] [text,because174,80] [text,because175,80] Please share with me anything else you feel I need to know to understand you and your experience of Hurt? [textarea,comments,3,70,Write in here...] [checkbox,send copy] SEND ME A COPY PLEASE [submit,SEND this Entry][reset,Start Over again] [/form]