REFRAME Anger Assessment [form] Name[text,r_name,30] Email [text,r_email,30] In reference to feeling ANGER ... WHOM OR WHAT IS the Object of your attention? [list,Your main focus] [option,My focus is on me my sense of self ,On ME my sense of self] [option,on other person or persons directly involved,On OTHER person or persons directly involved] [option,on third parties,On third parties not directly involved but influencing] [option,My focus is on LIFE in general ,Mostly focused on LIFE in general and how I view it] [option,My focus is on God or the divine ,Mostly focused on GOD or the Divine] [/list] OTHER focus?[text,otherfocus,60] WHERE - locations Where are you and who are you with when your experiences of Anger occur? Talk about the AREA or LOCATION (e.g. at work, at home...) and the RELATIONSHIPS (e.g. who you are with). [textarea,location of anger,3,70] WHEN - circumstances that activate an anger response I have frustration [list,I have frustration][option,choose,Choose the frequency of occurence,selected][option,0,0 Not at all][option,1,1 Sometimes][option,2,2 Frequently][option,3,3 Most of the time][/list] I have broken a personal rule, value [list,I have broken a personal rule value][option,choose,Choose the frequency of occurence,selected][option,0,0 Not at all][option,1,1 Sometimes][option,2,2 Frequently][option,3,3 Most of the time][/list] Others have broken a rule or violated a value [list,Others have broken a rule or violated a value][option,choose,Choose the frequency of occurence,selected][option,0,0 Not at all][option,1,1 Sometimes][option,2,2 Frequently][option,3,3 Most of the time][/list] OTHER ANGER Activating SITUATIONS? [textarea,Other situations,3,70] The degree to which I FEEL ANGER [list,My General assessment of the Impact is] [option,0,Choose level of ANGER IMPACT] [option,1 The absence of any distress,1 The absence of any distress. Feeling calm and totally relaxed] [option,2 Neutral feeling or just OK,2 Neutral feeling or just OK, not as relaxed as could be] [option,3 Increased discomfort,3 Increased discomfort, unpleasant, but in control] [option,4 Noticeable discomfort or distress,4 Noticeable discomfort or distress, perhaps agitation, but tolerable] [option,5 Discomfort is very uncomfortable,5 Discomfort is very uncomfortable, but I can stand it.] [option,6 Discomfort worsens and affects my life,6 Discomfort worsens and affects my life] [option,7 Discomfort is severe emotional pain interferes,7 Discomfort is severe and emotional pain interferes with my life.] [option,8 Discomfort increases in thoughts constantly,8 Discomfort increases and it is in my thoughts constantly] [option,9 Nearly intolerable,9 Discomfort is nearly intolerable] [option,10 discomfort extreme worst imaginable,10 Discomfort is extreme and the worst imaginable. I feel panicky and overwhelmed.] [/list] HOW I RESPOND WHEN ANGRY IS I attack the other physically [list,I attack the other physically][option,choose,Choose the frequency of occurence,selected][option,0,0 Not at all][option,1,1 Sometimes][option,2,2 Frequently][option,3,3 Most of the time][/list] I attack the other verbally [list,I attack the other verbally][option,choose,Choose the frequency of occurence,selected][option,0,0 Not at all][option,1,1 Sometimes][option,2,2 Frequently][option,3,3 Most of the time][/list] I attack the other passive-aggressively [list,I attack the other passive-aggressively][option,choose,Choose the frequency of occurence,selected][option,0,0 Not at all][option,1,1 Sometimes][option,2,2 Frequently][option,3,3 Most of the time][/list] I displace the attack onto another person, animal, or object [list,I displace the attack onto another person, animal or object][option,choose,Choose the frequency of occurence,selected][option,0,0 Not at all][option,1,1 Sometimes][option,2,2 Frequently][option,3,3 Most of the time][/list] I withdraw aggressively [list,I withdraw aggressively][option,choose,Choose the frequency of occurence,selected][option,0,0 Not at all][option,1,1 Sometimes][option,2,2 Frequently][option,3,3 Most of the time][/list] I recruit (propaganda) allies against the other [list,I recruit propaganda allies against the other][option,choose,Choose the frequency of occurence,selected][option,0,0 Not at all][option,1,1 Sometimes][option,2,2 Frequently][option,3,3 Most of the time][/list] MY OTHER ANGER RESPONSES [textarea,Other kinds of behaviour,3,70] WHEN I AM ANGRY MY THINKING IS... Someone else has broken my personal rule [list,Someone else has broken my personal rule][option,choose,Choose the frequency of occurence,selected][option,0,0 Not at all][option,1,1 Sometimes][option,2,2 Frequently][option,3,3 Most of the time][/list] My personal self-esteem is threatened [list,My personal self-esteem is threatened][option,choose,Choose the frequency of occurence,selected][option,0,0 Not at all][option,1,1 Sometimes][option,2,2 Frequently][option,3,3 Most of the time][/list] My personal view of self is threatened [list,My personal view of self is threatened][option,choose,Choose the frequency of occurence,selected][option,0,0 Not at all][option,1,1 Sometimes][option,2,2 Frequently][option,3,3 Most of the time][/list] I overestimate the extent the other person acted deliberately [list,I overestimate the extent the other person acted deliberately][option,choose,Choose the frequency of occurence,selected][option,0,0 Not at all][option,1,1 Sometimes][option,2,2 Frequently][option,3,3 Most of the time][/list] I see malicious intent in the motives of others [list,I see malicious intent in the motives of others][option,choose,Choose the frequency of occurence,selected][option,0,0 Not at all][option,1,1 Sometimes][option,2,2 Frequently][option,3,3 Most of the time][/list] I see myself as definitely right; other(s) seen as definitely wrong [list,I see myself as definitely right; other(s) seen as definitely wrong][option,choose,Choose the frequency of occurence,selected][option,0,0 Not at all][option,1,1 Sometimes][option,2,2 Frequently][option,3,3 Most of the time][/list] I am unable, blocked from seeing the other person's point of view [list,I am unable, blocked from seeing the other person's point of view][option,choose,Choose the frequency of occurence,selected][option,0,0 Not at all][option,1,1 Sometimes][option,2,2 Frequently][option,3,3 Most of the time][/list] I plot to exact revenge of some kind [list,I plot to exact revenge of some kind ][option,choose,Choose the frequency of occurence,selected][option,0,0 Not at all][option,1,1 Sometimes][option,2,2 Frequently][option,3,3 Most of the time][/list] OTHER ANGER THOUGHTS? [textarea,Other kinds of thoughts I have,3,70] IF any of the following statements are similar to thoughts with your anger-thoughts, please check them in the box beside. [checkbox,I must do well or very well]I MUST do well or very well! [checkbox, I am a BAD or WORTHLESS PERSON when I act weakly, or stupidly]I am a BAD or WORTHLESS PERSON when I act weakly, or stupidly. [checkbox,I MUST be approved, acknowledged or accepted by people I find important to me]I MUST be approved, acknowledged or accepted by people I find important to me. [checkbox,People MUST treat me fairly and give me what I NEED]People MUST treat me fairly and give me what I NEED. [checkbox,People MUST live up to my expectations or it is TERRIBLE ... awful]People MUST live up to my expectations or it is TERRIBLE (awful...) [checkbox,I CAN'T STAND really bad things or very difficult people]I CAN'T STAND really bad things or very difficult people! [checkbox,MUST have few major hassles or troubles]My work (task, job...) MUST have few major hassles or troubles. [checkbox,It's AWFUL or HORRIBLE when major (important...) things don't go my way]It's AWFUL or HORRIBLE when major (important...) things don't go my way [checkbox,I CAN'T STAND IT when work (tasks, situation...) is really unfair]I CAN'T STAND IT when work (tasks, situation...) is really unfair. [checkbox,I NEED a good deal of gratification (satisfaction...) and HAVE to feel miserable (upset, disturbed) when I don't get it.]I NEED a good deal of gratification (satisfaction...) and HAVE to feel miserable (upset, disturbed) when I don't get it. [checkbox,I must not suffer more discomfort than I feel I can bear]I MUST NOT experience more discomfort physically or emotionally than I feel I can bear Please share with me anything else you feel I need to know to understand you and your experience of Anger? [textarea,comments,3,70,Write in here...] [checkbox,send copy] SEND ME A COPY PLEASE [submit,SEND this Entry][reset,Start Over again] [/form]