This exercise is to help you differentiate between your interpreations (meaning) and ratings (valuing).
Identifying interpretations and ratings
In Chapters 3 and 8 of “Choose to be Happy” Wayne Froggatt HarperColllins it explains that there are two levels of thinking to look for: (1) your interpretations, and (2) the way you rate what is happening (what it means to you). The next exercise will help you distinguish between these two levels.
Exercise 5
Read the statements listed below. Write I next to the ones that are interpretations, and R next to those that represent ratings/personal meanings. Note that not all of the beliefs expressed are irrational. The first two have answers as examples.
Remember: Interpretations are what you think is 'going on' or happening; ratings are your evaluations of what is happening in terms of what it means to you.
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Name[text,name,30]
Email [text,email,30]
1. It's terrible to be treated like this. R
2. She was trying to hurt me. I
3. I'm satisfied things have turned out for the best.
[list,q3]
[option,0,Choose R rating or I Interpretation]
[option,R rating,R rating]
[option,I Interpretation,I Interpretation]
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4. He should consider me more than he does.
[list,q4]
[option,0,Choose R rating or I Interpretation]
[option,R rating,R rating]
[option,I Interpretation,I Interpretation]
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5. It will be hard to find another job.
[list,q5]
[option,0,Choose R rating or I Interpretation]
[option,R rating,R rating]
[option,I Interpretation,I Interpretation]
[/list]
6. It's not fair that he should be promoted ahead of me.
[list,q6]
[option,0,Choose R rating or I Interpretation]
[option,R rating,R rating]
[option,I Interpretation,I Interpretation]
[/list]
7. If I can't handle this, maybe I'm stupid.
[list,q7]
[option,0,Choose R rating or I Interpretation]
[option,R rating,R rating]
[option,I Interpretation,I Interpretation]
[/list]
8. There are too many people bludging off the system.
[list,q8]
[option,0,Choose R rating or I Interpretation]
[option,R rating,R rating]
[option,I Interpretation,I Interpretation]
[/list]
9. They were planning to attack me.
[list,q9]
[option,0,Choose R rating or I Interpretation]
[option,R rating,R rating]
[option,I Interpretation,I Interpretation]
[/list]
10. I prefer to be punctual whenever I can.
[list,q10]
[option,0,Choose R rating or I Interpretation]
[option,R rating,R rating]
[option,I Interpretation,I Interpretation]
[/list]
11. I'm heading towards another breakdown.
[list,q11]
[option,0,Choose R rating or I Interpretation]
[option,R rating,R rating]
[option,I Interpretation,I Interpretation]
[/list]
12. Why shouldn't I be angry?
[list,q12]
[option,0,Choose R rating or I Interpretation]
[option,R rating,R rating]
[option,I Interpretation,I Interpretation]
[/list]
13. I'll never be happy again.
[list,q13]
[option,0,Choose R rating or I Interpretation]
[option,R rating,R rating]
[option,I Interpretation,I Interpretation]
[/list]
14. She's probably planning to leave me.
[list,q14]
[option,0,Choose R rating or I Interpretation]
[option,R rating,R rating]
[option,I Interpretation,I Interpretation]
[/list]
15. Without her love I'm nothing.
[list,q15]
[option,0,Choose R rating or I Interpretation]
[option,R rating,R rating]
[option,I Interpretation,I Interpretation]
[/list]
16. He was angry.
[list,q16]
[option,0,Choose R rating or I Interpretation]
[option,R rating,R rating]
[option,I Interpretation,I Interpretation]
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17. I have no way of getting these debts paid off.
[list,q17]
[option,0,Choose R rating or I Interpretation]
[option,R rating,R rating]
[option,I Interpretation,I Interpretation]
[/list]
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