REFRAME - Helping you to Help Yourself

    By learning how to Handle Change

Profiling Problem Areas and forming a Treatment Plan

You can help the Online Counsellor understand what's happening by sharing across five areas of life that sit with most of us and by doing that give an overall picture of what your main issue is and where it lives and what influences are around it.

SELF SURVEY JOURNAL

QUICK PERSONAL TEMPERAMENT SNAPSHOT  With this snapshot be aware it is an approximation not a precise scientific assessment. You can alter any one factor and read the new result to compare.


MOOD PROFILE which includes behaviours and thinking associated with them

Emotions and Behaviours are clues to the thinking and conditioning behind upsets. Begin by using one of these links to help you profile how a troublesome emotion and behaviours associated with it, sit with you. 

·        ANGER  irritable, annoyed, rage, aggression

·        ANXIETYfear, scared, timid, concerned

·        DEPRESSIONoverly sad, flat, without hope

·        GUILT  remorse, sadness

·        SHAME  regret, avoiding, withdrawing

·        ENVY  competitive envious  resenting

·        JEALOUSY  defensive, critical, overly protective

·        HURT  injured, afflicted, bullied, pressured

 

What We Do

We help you using the REFRAME tools in this website, to a greater understanding of yourself and your situation so that you can identify a solution, set goals for it, and find tools to help bring that about if it is both possible and practical.

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About Us

We (John and Carolyn) are based in New Zealand and in Canada and are qualified and members of the appropriate professional organisations who provide supervision and an appropriate code of ethics. Over the last eight years or more we have worked as colleagues online and developed REFRAME for both personal and relationship areas of life. Though we can both work with each area, John specialises in the personal area (disturbing emotions and behaviours) and Carolyn in the relationships area (couples, friendships, families).

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News and Events

John and Carolyn are workshop presenters and as news is available about workshops run in either Canada or New Zealand, that news will be posted in this area.

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Edited Aug 2010